Empowering Women in Subic: Connected Women Subic Hosts An Innovative Meetup Experience

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  Exciting news for the women of Subic!  Get ready for the first Connected Women Meetup of 2023 , happening simultaneously in different municipalities across Zambales and beyond. The Connected Women Subic Meetup will be hosted by Jen Cajucom and co-hosted by Mitch Carvalho and Lynn Singian. It will be held on February 15, 6pm at Kairos House of Blends , located at the ground floor of the Balai Subik building along National Highway, Mangan-Vaca, Subic. And that's not all. Other municipalities in Zambales will also be holding their own meetups, with Myra Concepcion hosting Connected Women Castillejos, Melissa Moscoso for Connected Women San Felipe and April Mora for Connected Women Olongapo. This will be in conjunction with Connected Women's community-led meetups held all over the Philippines and in other countries. Since 2018, Connected Women meetups in Zambales have been hosted by Jen Cajucom and held as a single meetup for the whole province every 6-weeks. This time around, a
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Some Things Are Better Left Unsaid

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There are times that some things are better left unsaid, better left unspoken. 

As we get mad, we often say things not really intended to be said. If you’re too angry to think rationally, remove yourself from the situation. Give yourself a few quiet minutes alone to cool down. The more you understand your own temper, the more you will understand why people get mad, and the better your reactions to anger will be.

Advises are great, if the person welcomes it.  We should refrain from giving unsolicited advices.  If a friend asks for it, then that is the time to share and extend your views and opinions.

In business meetings with associates or clients, keep your thoughts to yourself first. Wait for the proper time or situation where you can speak out your ideas and suggestions.  In client meetings stick to the important matters to be discussed. Be aware that you are consuming both of your precious time.

Being talkative doesn’t necessarily mean that you are being friendly.  Sometimes, too much word lessens your credibility.  More talking applies to a sales person.

It is a normal scenario in parties, celebrations and occasions that we often loose-lipped, especially with our friends around.  We became very vocal due to excitement and happiness. Yet, we have to be mindful if we are already excessively communicative. lol

Keep in mind that “less talk makes less mistakes” Just my two cents J

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  1. UnknownMarch 11, 2011 at 10:42 AM

    very true, it happens to me and ashamed after!

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  2. ♥peachkins♥March 11, 2011 at 10:07 PM

    yikes... madaldal pa naman ako...
    Lovin your tips,mommy joy!

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  3. MhelMarch 11, 2011 at 11:25 PM

    I can really be a biatch when I open my mouth. I tend to say what I feel and think, usually getting me into trouble or hurting other people. Though I do love that part of me, I still manage to keep it under control.

    When I'm mad, I keep quiet. Unlike most people, when I'm fuming with anger, I think more clearly so if I speak, my words will really cut deep. My close friends know me too well to not push or force me to speak when I'm mad. They know we'll both regret letting me speak. Di ko mapreno, promise. Hahaha.

    About the advice-giving, I'm a bit sensitive about that, too, 'cause when I open up to other people, I usually am just looking for someone to take it all in or listen without judging me or telling me what I should do,'cause most of the time, I already know what to do. I just need to let it all out. Hehehe.

    Okay, this comment is too long na. Parang blog post. Hahaha. I just agree with you here, obviously. :)

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  4. SantelmoMarch 12, 2011 at 11:54 AM

    i totally agree! it's a good thing im a quite person, an introvert and anti-social. ^_^

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  5. JoyMarch 12, 2011 at 11:56 AM

    Air, hihi, di ba mapigil? so am I at times.

    Peachkins, thanks dear! pls. keep coming back :)

    BlankPixels, your comment is well appreciated! welcome back Idol!

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  6. JoyMarch 12, 2011 at 2:15 PM

    hello Santelmo! my eldest son JM is an introvert too :)

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  7. riablahgsMarch 12, 2011 at 4:47 PM

    I Super Agree!!! Well said Mommy Joy. Just this morning as I was going through my rounds of web news, I found some irritating and blasphemous comments about God. I posted about it. Reading your post about some things are better left unsaid (AND UNWRITTEN) is really apt.

    God Bless,
    Ria C

    It's My Party
    Home is Where the Heart Is
    Red Lips and Pinky Toes
    Handmade with LOVE

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  8. CheerfulMarch 12, 2011 at 10:16 PM

    very well said...first time here and i'm loving your thoughts, following you in facebook! visiting you thru the bloggers exchange program!

    PinayMum - Mommy's Life Around... wishing you a great weekend! :)

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  9. JoyMarch 13, 2011 at 5:38 AM

    Hello!sis Ria, just visited your Home is where the heart is, i left a comment there too! hihi, thanks for the visit once again.

    Hi Cheerful! thanks for dropping by, feel free to keep coming back :)
    i visited your blog and followed your networked blogs, left a comment there too! Happy weekened!

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  10. TrishMarch 13, 2011 at 9:15 AM

    completely agree here, mommy Joy. minsan ako pag galit talagang nakakapagbitiw ng masakit na salita then later pagsisisihan ko naman.lol! kaya it's really safe to control your temper and emotions than to hurt someone and later regret it.

    thanks for the visit mommy!

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  11. DorothyMarch 13, 2011 at 10:29 AM

    visiting here :)
    what you've posted is very true, mas mabuti pa manahimik kesa lumala pa ang situation :)

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  12. cecilleMarch 13, 2011 at 7:52 PM

    Sometimes it's better to keep quite but not all the time sis.:)

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  13. JoyMarch 14, 2011 at 8:48 AM

    You're welcome Mommy Trish! my pleasure!

    Dorothy, glad you visited me :)thanks

    Cecille, my blood sister, welcome back hehe

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  14. ♥♥ Willa ♥♥March 16, 2011 at 11:07 AM

    Although I'm a talkative by nature but when I'm mad, I always opt to Silent Treatment because I don't want to say something that I might regret later on.

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  15. ♥♥ Willa ♥♥March 23, 2011 at 11:56 AM

    Although I'm a talkative by nature but when I'm mad, I always opt to Silent Treatment because I don't want to say something that I might regret later on.

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  16. Pinay MommyJune 26, 2012 at 4:40 AM

    I have a similar post about this one Mamu. It was posted in one of my not so known blog. And yes, I also mentioned the same... less talk, less mistakes.

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  17. Mary Joy CaytonMay 17, 2014 at 10:11 AM

    i completely agree. before talkative ako siguro ganun din yun base sa mga nakaka salamuha mong mga tao. Pero nung nakilala ko ang husband ko, he taught me na think first before i speak. Tama nga naman, less talk, less mistake.

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